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If you’ve been given a compliment or interviewed for a job, you’ve probably wondered how to come across as confident, but not arrogant. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and we’re here to tell you all about it. In this article, we’ll explain what confidence and arrogance are, how they’re different, and how to be confident without coming across as cocky. Let’s dive in!
Things You Should Know
- Confidence is the belief in your own abilities while arrogance is the overestimation or exaggeration of your abilities.
- Confident people are aware of their weaknesses and seek to improve them. Arrogant people don’t acknowledge their weaknesses and run from feedback.
- Be confident but not arrogant by listening to and taking constructive criticism, helping other people, and recognizing your strengths and accomplishments.
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- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/2016/07-08/graduate-cocky
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- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/the-fine-line-between-self-confidence-cockiness
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- ↑ https://www.cornerstone.edu/blog-post/simple-yet-powerful-ways-to-grow-in-self-confidence/
- ↑ https://www.usf.edu/student-affairs/counseling-center/top-concerns/what-is-self-confidence.aspx
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/the-fine-line-between-self-confidence-cockiness
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/tracybrower/2020/01/12/confidence-without-arrogance-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-be-the-smartest-person-in-the-room-6-tips-to-avoid-the-arrogance-trap/?sh=4c7d1e1d1c4f
- ↑ https://www.cornerstone.edu/blog-post/simple-yet-powerful-ways-to-grow-in-self-confidence/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shyness-is-nice/201809/why-self-confidence-is-more-important-you-think
- ↑ https://spsp.org/news-center/character-context-blog/attractiveness-confidence
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8101990/
- ↑ https://www.smc.edu/administration/human-resources/documents/EASE/Confident-Without-Being-Arrogant.pdf
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unified-theory-happiness/202005/6-ways-deal-arrogant-people
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