Sophie Burkholder, BA

35 of the Most Common Red Flags to Watch Out For

Expert-backed ways to spot and swerve red flags in your relationshipRed flags are more than having an Android or liking pineapple on pizza (which we’re on board with, by the way). Some red flags can cause real harm, a...

27 Personal & Funny Bumble Prompts & Answers

Plus expert advice on choosing pics, prompts, and your opening lineCrafting a perfect dating profile is like our modern-day version of finding the Holy Grail—and writing good prompts may be the hardest part. A good pro...

The 4 Stages of Limerence and What to Do About Them

Is it love or limerence…and can it be both?The “honeymoon phase,” “love at first sight,” an “instant connection…” These are all terms we’ve heard used to describe the type of love everyone hopes for—...

How to Know a Taurus Man Is Serious About You

Understand why Taurus is so slow to commit (and how to get him there faster)Taurus men are some of the most affectionate, loyal, and caring partners you can get—but there’s a reason that this Zodiac sign is represen...

What Are the Best Matches for an ISFJ?

A romantic compatibility guide for ISFJGenerous, responsible, and reserved, ISFJs are often known as “The Protector” or “The Nurturer”—and for good reason. In romantic relationships, ISFJs provide immense care...

ENFP and INFJ: Are They Compatible?

Find out if this pair makes a great match as lovers, friends, colleagues, and moreNicknamed the Advocate and the Campaigner, the INFJ and ENFP personality types do seem like a perfect match: the dreamer who advocates fo...

What Are the Stages of a Breakup?

Expert advice on how to move on after a breakupBreakups are one of the most difficult but inescapable parts of life, and they can feel neverending when you’re in the middle of them. We're here to guide you through the...

51 Sweet Things to Do For Your Girlfriend

Listen to love experts’ advice on how to treat your gfYou want your girlfriend to always know how much you love and care about her, but how do you keep showing her in new and exciting ways? We talked to professional m...

A Guide to Ending a Short Term Relationship

Make moving on from a new relationship as painless as possibleEnding a short term relationship can hurt just as much (if not more) than a long term relationship, even if they only last for a matter of weeks or months. If...

A Complete Guide to Twin Flame Friendships

Learn from experts about this unique type of platonic relationshipThe idea of twin flames is often brought up when discussing romance: our one true love, soulmate, or even destiny. But what if a twin flame is platonic? ...

Who Is ESFJ Most Compatible With?

Learn about the personality traits and love styles of ESFJsESFJs are defined by the attention and generosity they freely give to others. After all, they are known as the ‘Caregiver’ or ‘Consul.' But ESFJs want to ...

How to Be a Better Best Friend

Be the best version of yourself as a best friendA best friend is your nearest and dearest companion, and it’s a special relationship to share with your closest pal. But “best friend” is more than a title—it’s ...

How to Get Over a Narcissistic Relationship

Recovering from any turbulent relationship can be tough, but it can be especially difficult if your ex shows narcissistic qualities like selfishness, arrogance, or manipulative behavior. By following the steps below, you...

What Does It Mean to Have a Monotone Voice?

Improve your vocal variety with this guide''Bueller? Bueller? Anyone…''who can hear that voice knows what a monotone voice sounds like. But even if you recognize the low, flat, and unchanging notes we associate with a...

How to Get a Narcissist to Chase You: 12 Powerful Tips

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is defined by a need for admiration and a high sense of self-importance. With those traits in mind, is it even possible to get someone with narcissistic tendencies to be interested...

A Guide to Greeting the British Royal Family & Aristocracy

Use the proper titles and gestures when rubbing elbows with royalsA long history of etiquette establishes how to show respect to a member of the British aristocracy. In the modern day, no one requires these courtesies, ...

The 100+ Best Questions to Ask Your BFF

Get to know your bestie on a whole new levelYour best friend might be the person you tell EVERYTHING to, but that doesn’t mean you know everything about each other. Asking your best friend fresh and interesting questi...

What Does It Mean to “Have Feelings For Someone”?

Plus, learn other English phrases like “I feel for you”Emotions are complicated, as are the words and phrases we use to express them. The meaning of “I have feelings for you,” for instance, has long been debated...

How Important Is Someone’s Body Count?

Plus expert advice on moving past any feelings of shame or judgment in the body count convoWhen you start dating someone new, it’s natural to be curious about each other’s romantic history—including body count, or ...

Who Is Most Compatible with ISFP?

Discover the best (and worst) matches for the Adventurer personality typeSometimes called the Adventurer, Composer, or even the Artist, the ISFP personality is all about flexibility, creativity, and a complex emotional ...