This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by How.com.vn staff writer, Emily Liu. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
There are 13 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page.
This article has been viewed 705,211 times.
Does a certain girl take your breath away? Is she the only thing you can think about? If you’re absolutely infatuated by her, we know how it feels—and we have your back. Don’t stress if you’re not sure how to impress her and stand out. With these helpful tips we’ve put together for you, you might just win her heart!
Steps
Attract Girls and Win Their Hearts with this Expert Series
Community Q&A
- QuestionHow do you make a teenage girl fall in love fast?How.com.vn Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerHow.com.vn Staff EditorStaff AnswerYou can’t make a girl fall in love with you—that feeling has to come from her! However, you can do your best to make yourself attractive to her by being kind and confident and looking your best. Give her your attention and be courteous when you’re with her, offer her sincere compliments, and show a genuine interest in who she is as a person. Earn her trust by being honest with her and respecting her boundaries. That way, she’ll have a chance to see what an awesome person you are. - QuestionHow do you know if a teenage girl likes you?How.com.vn Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerHow.com.vn Staff EditorStaff AnswerCheck to see if she makes eye contact, smiles at you a lot, and looks for excuses to be around you. She might flirt by teasing you in a friendly way or giving you compliments. You might also notice that she laughs a lot when she’s with you, gets close, or occasionally touches your hand or arm. The best way to know for sure how she feels is to ask her, but you can also try asking her friends if you’re feeling nervous about approaching her directly. - QuestionHow do you gain a girl’s trust?How.com.vn Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerHow.com.vn Staff EditorStaff AnswerBe honest and reliable with her. For example, if you make a promise to her, make sure you keep it. If you make a mistake or can’t keep a promise, own up to it immediately and explain what happened. You can also gain her trust by respecting her boundaries. For instance, if she asks you not to call her at a certain time, don’t do it. Show that you trust her as well by opening up to her about your feelings and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
Tips
- Figure out what she likes, because each girl is unique! Pay attention to any comments she makes about her personality, like if she says “I don't like girls who flirt a lot" or "I hate when people do that!"Thanks
- Respect her boundaries at all times. If she seems hesitant about something, it’s better to take a step back and ask her how she feels instead of assuming she’s okay with it. Pay attention to both her physical body language and other signs; if you notice that she’s not eager or excited about something, this could be a chance for you to switch things up and figure out what she would like more.Thanks
- Before you make any moves, it’s best to make sure she’s not dating anyone.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- When asking for a girl's number, steal a few casual glances first to gauge interest, then approach directly saying "Hey, could I get your number to call you later?" If she declines, ask to meet up instead. Rebound if your first attempt falls through!
- If a girl asks who you like, try this phone trick: "Turn off your phone and stare at the black screen until you figure it out." The suspense hints that it's her without the pressure of a direct confession.
- Before formally asking out a girl, learn her zodiac sign and use astrological compability knowledge to boost your chances. Understanding her character can help you appeal to her unique personality.
- Keep romantic intentions private in the early stages. Spreading rumors or frequently swapping partners leads to a bad reputation that can undermine your current effort at winning someone's heart.
- Thoughtful gestures like lending your jacket when she gets cold demonstrate chivalry and care. She'll be touched that you considered her comfort. But don't rush to intimacy before she's ready.
References
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/confidence.html
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201906/which-shared-interests-are-most-attractive
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/a34297/things-guys-wear-that-make-them-hotter/
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/research/action/speaking-of-psychology/fashion
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/let-their-words-do-the-talking/201608/people-will-you-if-you-make-them-laugh
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a30538685/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a25363090/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a25363090/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
- ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2015/10/01/how-teens-interact-with-potential-romantic-partners/
- ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2015/10/01/how-teens-interact-with-potential-romantic-partners/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g24673077/flirty-emoji-combinations/
- ↑ https://justmind.org/time-important-relationships/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a25363090/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
- ↑ https://dating.lovetoknow.com/how-make-girl-fall-love-you
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201411/what-message-do-your-gifts-send
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a25363090/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a31346416/questions-to-ask-your-crush/
About This Article
Reader Success Stories
- "She finally liked, a girl in my church she has feelings for me and I knew but don't know the way to tell her but later on it was successful."..." more
Did this article help you?
⚠️ Disclaimer:
Content from Wiki How English language website. Text is available under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike License; additional terms may apply.
Wiki How does not encourage the violation of any laws, and cannot be responsible for any violations of such laws, should you link to this domain, or use, reproduce, or republish the information contained herein.
- - A few of these subjects are frequently censored by educational, governmental, corporate, parental and other filtering schemes.
- - Some articles may contain names, images, artworks or descriptions of events that some cultures restrict access to
- - Please note: Wiki How does not give you opinion about the law, or advice about medical. If you need specific advice (for example, medical, legal, financial or risk management), please seek a professional who is licensed or knowledgeable in that area.
- - Readers should not judge the importance of topics based on their coverage on Wiki How, nor think a topic is important just because it is the subject of a Wiki article.