How to Tell if a Baby Is a Boy or Girl by the Heartbeat

Figuring out if your baby is male or female is something that many soon-to-be parents are curious about, and there are plenty of rumored ways to go about doing so. You’ve probably already heard about some of these signs of having a boy or a girl, even if these stories can get a little confusing. We’ll walk you through some of these "old wives' tales" starting with one of the most famous: using your baby’s heartbeat to figure out its sex.

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Can you tell if a baby is male or female by their heartbeat?

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It’s popularly believed that in the womb, boys have a heart rate of 120-140 beats per minute, and girls have a heart rate of 140-160 beats per minute. In reality, a fetus’ heart rate ranges anywhere from 120-160 beats per minute and changes depending on what they’re doing. A baby’s heartbeat slows down when they’re asleep, and gets faster while they’re awake.^{[1]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to source}
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The fact is, male and female babies have identical heart rates. A study of a group of first-trimester babies calculated that the baby boys had an average heart rate of 154.9 beats per minute, and girls had an average heart rate of 151.7 bpm. But since both boys’ and girls’ heart rates could be anywhere within around 23 bpm of that rate, it’s impossible to determine the baby’s sex from only knowing their heart rate.^{[2]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to source}
- To find out your baby’s heart rate, you can ask your doctor at your next check-up. Measuring your infant’s heart rate is generally one of the first things done at an appointment.

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Old Wives' Tales to Predict the Sex of Your Baby

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Some say that nausea during pregnancy means it’s a boy. But others insist it means you’re having a girl. This story in particular gets told both ways, and in truth, feeling nauseous or vomiting during pregnancy is normal no matter the sex of your baby.^{[3]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to source}
- Some studies link hyperemesis gravidarum, or severe vomiting and nausea during pregnancy, with having a girl. Hyperemesis gravidarum goes beyond normal nausea and vomiting, and if you find yourself unable to stand up without feeling faint or dizzy, you should see a doctor as soon as possible.
While there’s no evidence that the kinds of cravings you have can predict the sex of your baby, there are some studies that show pregnant moms tend to eat more when they have boys instead of girls.^{[4]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to source}
The story also says that if the weight of the baby is more spread out throughout the abdomen, it means it’s a girl. In reality, the size and shape of the baby bump has more to do with the position of the fetus inside the womb, which doesn’t have any link to sex.^{[5]XResearch source}
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A ring hanging over your belly can predict the sex of your baby. This is a very old method for figuring out if you’re having a boy or a girl. Tie a piece of string to a normal jewelry ring. Then, lay down, and hold the string over your belly so that the ring is a couple of inches away from your stomach. If it moves side-to-side, it means you’re having a girl, and if it moves in a circle, it means it’s a boy.^{[6]XResearch source}
- Unsurprisingly, there’s no scientific evidence for this method, but it can be fun. The movement of the ring has to do with the subtle motion of your hand, not the baby’s sex.
Although some mothers have a strong intuition about the sex of her baby, studies have shown that these guesses aren’t statistically significant enough to be more right than flipping a coin.^{[7]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to source}

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How to Determine the Sex of Your Baby

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Feeling eager to find out the sex of your baby is normal. Some feelings of anxiety are also typical for expecting mothers and fathers, especially if you’d really hoping for the baby to be a certain gender. Keep in mind, however, that even though many parents are disappointed when their baby isn’t the sex they’d hoped for, over time these feelings will go away as you enjoy the special individual that your child is.^{[8]XResearch source}
- If anxiety over your baby’s sex, or disappointment once you find out what your baby’s sex is, turns into something that affects your mental health, talk to a counselor. They can help you work through your feelings so that you can return to feeling excited about parenthood.
With advances in medical technology, the scans provided during an ultrasound are even more detailed than before, meaning that a doctor or technician can determine the sex of a baby with a very high degree of accuracy. A professional should be able to determine your baby’s sex anytime after the 18th-22nd week of pregnancy.^{[9]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to source}
NIPTs (Non-invasive prenatal testing) involve nothing more than a simple blood test, and are usually used to determine if a baby is at risk for serious genetic diseases. This kind of testing has a high degree of accuracy for determining sex, especially as the pregnancy progresses.^{[10]XResearch source}
CVS testing (Chorionic Villus Sampling) is normally only performed for mothers who have a higher risk of having a child with serious health conditions at birth, such as Down syndrome or cystic fibrosis. While CVS testing is not painful, it does involve some discomfort, as a plastic tube is inserted into the cervix through the vagina.^{[11]XTrustworthy SourceCleveland ClinicEducational website from one of the world's leading hospitalsGo to source}