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Striking up a conversation with someone IRL is tough enough—but figuring out what to say on Instagram might be even harder. If you stumble across someone that seems super cool but you just can’t figure out what to say, you’re not alone! Fortunately, there are a lot of different ways you can open up a dialogue with a girl.
Here are 11 foolproof ways to start a conversation with a girl you like on Instagram.
Steps
Examples of Conversation Starters to Grab a Girl's Attention
Expert Q&A
- QuestionHow many times should I talk to someone online before meeting them?Cher GopmanCher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
Dating CoachI'd suggest that you have at least 5 conversations online before meeting up with someone. The exception might be if you meet on Tinder or Bumble and there's a crazy immediate connection where the two of you share some mutual interest, but in general, you want to chat a few times before meeting up. - QuestionHow can I build a connection with someone over Instagram?Cher GopmanCher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
Dating CoachTry to find a mutual interest that both of you share and lean into that. It's a lot easier to connect with someone if you have something in common that gets both of you excited. - QuestionHow do you start a conversation with a non-binary person on Instagram?Community AnswerTalk to them as you would do with anyone else, except don't use gendered pronouns or words. Just talk about stuff you like, and listen to them talk about that stuff back. It's that simple.
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Tips
- Try not to send multiple DMs at once, as it can feel a little overwhelming.Thanks
Warnings
- Never send an inappropriate or sexual photo without asking first.Thanks
- Be careful what you post on Instagram. Inappropriate content or offensive comments can lead to consequences like reprimands or account bans. Be mindful of your content and language on the platform.Thanks
- Remember that harassing her can be considered cyberbullying and may result in a report being filed against you.Thanks
- When trying to flirt with her online, remember to be mindful of her relationship status and how she feels about you to avoid being blocked.Thanks
- If you want to keep things smooth with her, it might be best to avoid asking her to post revealing pictures. After all, you wouldn’t want to be blocked!Thanks
References
- ↑ https://bestlifeonline.com/instagram-flirting/
- ↑ https://chattraction.com/how-to-text-a-girl-on-instagram/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/202012/what-is-your-flirting-style-how-do-you-flirt
- ↑ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/03/146596/how-to-slide-into-dms-instagram-guide#slide-4
- ↑ https://swipelife.tinder.com/post/online-flirting
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://bestlifeonline.com/instagram-flirting/
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=225&v=8dx6bNyVUxE&feature=youtu.be
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/202012/what-is-your-flirting-style-how-do-you-flirt
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