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Is that guy at work checking you out, or are you imagining things? Is he fantasizing about you, or is he just being friendly? If you’re hoping he’s into you—or if you’re really hoping he isn’t—there are plenty of ways to tell if his feelings are platonic or romantic. Keep reading for the ultimate list of signals that your coworker is keeping a crush under wraps.
Things You Should Know
- He probably likes you if he sits next to you in meetings, chooses you for his team, and sticks up for you in front of others.
- If he’s attracted to you, he’ll send nonverbal cues like light touching, leaning in when you talk, and improving the way he dresses.
- Your coworker likely has a crush if he loves talking to you, remembers small details about you, and compliments you.
- He might be into you if he invites you to lunch, messages you outside of work, and wants to hang out.
Steps
Expert Q&A
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References
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