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For 18-year-olds, living at home is a sensible way to weather a tough economy and build up to a more independent life. But living with a young adult is different than living with the child they once were, and you’ll need to set some ground rules to make sure your entire household runs smoothly. We’ve compiled the 14 most important rules to establish to help you and your teen get comfortable. Just not too comfortable; the nest has got to empty someday!
Things You Should Know
- Negotiate expenses like rent, utilities, and food. If your teen is working and making money, they can contribute to the household costs.
- Set a timeline for when your teen needs to start looking for housing or moving out to keep them focused on becoming independent.
- Divide up household chores like vacuuming, cooking, or pet care. If your teen lives at home, they should pitch in to maintain that home.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Enforce your rules through encouragement, rather than punishment. If your teen does all they’re asked, reward them with a break from certain responsibilities, and be sure to express your gratitude when they follow your contract.Thanks
- Remember that these are only suggestions! Establish rules that work for your household and lifestyle, and feel free to leave the rest.Thanks
References
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- ↑ https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/01/ask-amy-grandparents-welcome-18-year-old-to-live-with-them-but-want-to-lay-down-some-house-rules.html
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-age-overindulgence/201902/our-adult-children-are-living-back-home-again-help-me
- ↑ https://yourteenmag.com/stuff-we-love/teenager-summer/house-rules-for-college-students-in-summer
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/life-after-50/202009/have-your-young-adult-children-moved-back-home
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/life-after-50/202009/have-your-young-adult-children-moved-back-home
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