Some girls can feel like a total mystery. How can you figure out if she likes you just as a friend or if she wants something more?
When you pay close attention, you might start finding that her actions reveal all her secret feelings. So, does she have a crush? We’re here to help you solve the mystery. To crack the code, take our quiz!
Questions Overview
1. How do her friends treat you?
- They told me that she likes me.
- They giggle and laugh with her when I walk into the room.
- They’ve mentioned her in conversation.
- They haven’t done anything out of the ordinary (or I don't know them).
2. You just walked into the same room as your crush. What’s she doing?
- She noticed me and started blushing.
- She looked at me immediately—but then quickly looked away.
- She smiled and waved.
- She didn’t notice when I walked in.
3. How does she usually greet you?
- She has a big smile and gives me a hug.
- She seems nervous and jittery—sometimes she won’t make eye contact.
- She plays it cool—she’s friendly but casual.
- She greets me like everyone else.
4. You just flirted with a different person in front of her. How does she react?
- She rolls her eyes and looks annoyed.
- She’s a little quieter with me than usual but warms up after a while.
- I saw her notice me flirting, but she doesn’t say anything.
- She doesn’t notice.
5. How does she act during your conversations?
- She blushes and her voice shakes—it’s like she’s nervous to talk to me!
- She’s enthusiastic and asks tons of questions.
- She smiles and acts friendly.
- She responds to my questions with short answers.
6. Does she remember the things you tell her?
- Definitely. My siblings’ names, my favorite food—she remembers everything!
- She remembers the important stuff, like my birthday.
- She remembers some big things, but she forgets other things.
- I don’t think she’s ever remembered anything important about me.
7. Is she supportive of you?
- Yes, she’s my #1 fan! She makes me feel great about myself.
- She compliments me when I have a big win or I ace a test.
- She's nice to me, but she’s nice to everyone. I don't think she treats me any different.
- Not really!
8. Do you ever catch her staring at you?
- Constantly! But when I catch her, she’ll quickly look away…
- Yeah, I’ve caught her looking once or twice.
- I think she stares at me a normal amount…
- I don’t think I’ve ever caught her staring at me.
9. Does she laugh at your jokes?
- Definitely. When I talk to her, I feel like the funniest person on the planet.
- She laughs—but I’m really funny, so that checks out.
- Sometimes, but not too often.
- Almost never.
10. Has she ever told you that she’s single?
- She mentions it constantly. She told me about her last break-up right after it happened.
- She’s definitely made sure that I know.
- She’s mentioned it once or twice.
- She’s never told me whether or not she’s single.
11. Which compliment can you imagine her giving you?
- “You’re an amazing person.”
- “You look so good today.”
- “I like your new haircut!”
- “Good job on your project!”
12. What are your text conversations like?
- So fun. She responds pretty quickly, asks me questions, and sends funny gifs!
- I usually text her first, but she responds to me quickly.
- We text a little, but sometimes she forgets to respond.
- Now that you mention it, she doesn’t respond to most of my texts.
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A Closer Look at the Thrilling World of Crushes
What is a crush?
A crush is a slang word for a strong one-sided romantic attraction that one person experiences for another. While crushes are often associated with teens and other young people, anyone can develop a crush at any point in time.
- Crushes are sometimes one-sided, but they can also be a two-way street.
What is the purpose of crushes?
- Crushes could be a biological side effect of who we are as people. Some believe that the experience of developing a crush is all about finding a long-term partner, with the intense feelings pushing you closer and closer toward a specific person. Still, crushes come in all shapes and sizes, and people aren’t always attracted to individuals who are single or otherwise “available.”
- Crushes can help you take a closer look at your ongoing relationship. It’s definitely an uncomfortable experience to develop a crush on someone other than your partner. Still, by taking a deeper dive into this crush help you know for sure if your current relationship is built to last.
- For instance, you can be confident that your existing relationship is strong if you’re able to keep your crush on the down-low without it impacting your current partnership.
- For instance, you can be confident that your existing relationship is strong if you’re able to keep your crush on the down-low without it impacting your current partnership.
How do I know if someone has a crush on me?
- They mimic your body language. If someone’s really crushing on you, they might try to “mirror” your behavior, or adjust their body language and/or speech patterns in a way that’s identical to yours. People use “mirroring” to gauge if their crush is interested or not.
- They get into your personal space. Sure, everyone stands relatively close to one another during a conversation—but someone who’s crushing on you might take it to the next level. From a technical standpoint, they might be less than 18 in (46 cm) away from your face, or make an extra effort to lean into your space.
- They ask a lot of questions about you. Someone crushing on you will naturally want to learn more about you—and what better way to do that than by asking questions? Pay attention to the flow of your conversations and see if they seem extra curious about you.
- They bring up little details you mentioned before. Maybe they remember the name of your dog, or mention your favorite sport or activity. Recalling specific details is intentional, and shows that they’re dedicated and attentive to what you share with them.
- They try to spend time with you. Maybe they seek you out for a group project or hit you up for a weekend hangout. While they might just be looking to spend time as friends, there could also be ulterior (romantic) motives underfoot.
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