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Are you and your partner considering diving into the world of open relationships? An open relationship is a consensual, non-monogamous relationship. While there are a few different types, they all boil down to the same thing: a type of relationship where you both date and sleep with other people (rather than having 1 single partner). With the right ground rules and enough open communication, you can create a rock-solid foundation for your open relationship to stand on. Keep reading to learn more about non-monogamy and how to set healthy boundaries with your partner.
Things You Should Know
- Set your sexual and emotional boundaries early on. Discuss how sexual and how romantic you want your outside relationships to be.
- Be honest and tell the truth at all times. Without a solid foundation, an open relationship can’t thrive.
- Always practice safe sex, and get tested for STDs and STIs often.
- Talk about who you and your partner can pursue, and who’s off the table to have an outside relationship with.
Steps
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Tips
- If you’re having trouble with an open relationship, visit a couple’s counselor who specializes in non-monogamy. They can help you work through your issues from a third party, unbiased perspective.Thanks
- Not sure if you’re ready to have an open relationship? Spend some more time looking into them to see if it’s right for you. They can be healthy and successful, but they do take a lot of time and effort to make them that way.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/open-relationship-rules
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- ↑ https://www.psychalive.org/open-relationship/
- ↑ https://www.vogue.com/article/threes-a-crowd-can-an-open-relationship-work-breathless-karley-sciortino-slutever
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6121/open-relationship-tips/
- ↑ https://www.psychalive.org/open-relationship/
- ↑ https://www.psychalive.org/open-relationship/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201602/five-strategies-manage-jealousy
- ↑ https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/how-to-close-your-open-marriage
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