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Want to find new girls to chat with online? Omegle is a great way to meet strangers to chat with, both with video chat and text chat. Because Omegle matches you up based on common interests, you can easily chat with girls and already have things to talk about. We'll help you select interests that increase your chances of matching with girls on Omegle, and give you tips for sustaining a lively and interesting chat.
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Steps
Enter interests that relate to girls. Omegle allows you to search for other chatters with similar interests. Enter in some interests that appeal to girls in order to increase your chances of being paired with a female.- Examples include popular music groups and singers, female-centric hobbies, and television shows and movies with a primarily-female audience.
Start off with an ice-breaker. It can be tough to get a conversation with a stranger going, so be prepared with a few lines you can start off any conversation with. Ask her how her day is going, if she's seen such-and-such movie/band/show, if she's ever traveled, etc.[1]- See this guide for more details and tips on breaking the ice in a conversation.
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Avoid asking if they are a girl. If you start off the conversation asking if the other person is a girl, you're bound to drive most people away. Let the conversation happen a bit, and you'll likely be able to figure out the truth after a little while.- If you are doing a video chat, make sure that the other person is real. It is fairly easy to fake a video using a recording, so ensure that the person is actually talking to you live. [2]
Keep the conversation light. When you first start chatting with someone, keep the topic of conversation light and easy. Ask her about the place she lives, what she’s into, what she’s studying at school, her hobbies, etc.[3]
Stay humble. It can be tempting to brag and expand the truth when chatting online, but you’ll get a lot farther if you stay humble. Avoid boasting, and try not to talk about yourself too much.
Crack some jokes. Humor is a great way to break the ice, but you have to be careful with it. It can be hard to express inflection and subtlety when typing, which can cause a joke to totally lose its meaning. Avoid offensive jokes.- Try telling a funny story about something that happened to you. It not only paints you as someone who's humble and able to laugh at themselves, but it can also do wonders for breaking the ice. She may have a similar story!
Keep it classy. Avoid being rude or crass. Nothing will end a conversation faster than you saying something lewd or inappropriate. Always be a gentleman, and judge the conversation before taking that leap.- Don't get angry is she doesn't want to continue the conversation. Dust yourself off and find a new chat partner. Don't take out your frustrations on her.
Take your chat elsewhere. If the two of you are hitting it off, it may be time to exchange contact information for a better chat program. This will ensure that you can chat with each other at leisure. Popular programs include Skype and AIM. Avoid using any service that includes your real name, such as Facebook, until you've gotten to know each other better.
Don’t give out personal information. Omegle is a chat with a stranger. Even if you feel like you know the other person, they are still a complete stranger to you.[5] There is also a very good chance that the other person is lying about who they are. Staying safe online is very important, especially when interacting with strangers.
Don’t meet in person. Avoid setting up any real-life meetings unless you have been chatting for a while through other means.[6] Even then, make sure the meeting place is safe and that both of your feel totally comfortable with the idea.
Don’t do anything illegal. If you’re talking to a minor, you can get into a lot of trouble, especially if the talk turns sexual.[7] Anyone over the age of 13 can use Omegle, so exercise caution and common sense when chatting.
Don't bully the other person. Cyberbullying is a serious issue, and there can be a tendency to be harsh because you are anonymous. Remember that the person on the other end is a real person, with feelings just like you. Bullying can cause significant emotional damage, and should be avoided at all costs.[8] If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
Community Q&A
- QuestionHow do I increase how many girls are interested in me?
Community AnswerBe confident, kind and patient with girls. Put your best foot forward and they will respond with interest.
Tips
- Don't overdo the conversation if she doesn't reply for a while. Send a maximum of three messages.Thanks
- Be wary that a lot of fake people are on the site to lure you into joining their site and possibly to give you a virus. Only click on them once you know that the person is genuine. (Unsure? Ask them what's 2+2. If they don't get it right then they are probably just a robot).Thanks
- Don't sound desperate even if the chemistry is there.Thanks
Warnings
- Meeting strangers online can be dangerous, even if you've seen them on the webcam!Thanks
- Be mindful of and respect the fact that not every girl wants to be harassed online for dates or your IM usernames.Thanks
- Never ask to meet up with an underaged girl under 18, it's illegal and she probably would bring an adult or some authority.Thanks
- If you are ever in doubt if the person is a fake or anything else, block and report the person.Thanks
- Always meet up in a public place, maybe a mall (so you can buy a gift, lunch, etc.), if you decide to meet each other.Thanks
Expert Interview
Thanks for reading our article! If you’d like to learn more about relationships, check out our in-depth interview with Lisa Shield.
References
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To meet and chat with girls on Omegle, try entering interests that relate to girls, like popular music groups and singers, hobbies, and shows and movies that appeal to a primarily female audience. When you find someone to chat with, start with a friendly icebreaker, like asking how their day has been or if they've ever heard of a band or movie you like. Since being too direct could drive girls away, resist the urge to ask if the other person is female and keep the conversation light and easy. You can keep the conversation going by seeing what interests you have in common, cracking inoffensive jokes, or telling a funny story. As long as you stay humble and keep it classy, people will want to keep chatting with you. For more advice, including how to stay safe on Omegle, keep reading!
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