How to Make a Cancer and Aquarius Friendship Work

They're your best friend, your ride or die, the person you're grateful to have in your life--or not. While some incompatible zodiac pairings can work out their differences, the crab and the water bearer may struggle just to get started. Cancer and Aquarius zodiac contains all of the information you need to know about how to make this so-called difficult zodiac pair work.

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Why are Cancers and Aquarius seen as a bad pairing?

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Aquarius' can be aloof and distant while Cancers are often emotional and sensitive. This can be compared to mixing water with oil. Cancer is in touch with their emotions and has no problem expressing them. As for Aquarius, they are frequently thought to be emotionless, but they simply express their emotions in different ways than others.^{[1]XResearch source}
- Note: An Aquarius must tap into their feelings, while a Cancer must tap into their logic in order to manage any kind of conflict or overcome some of the natural stumbling blocks that occur in friendships.^{[2]XResearch source}
Regardless of gender, Aquarius has yang, masculine energy, whereas Cancer is the polar opposite. It's all too easy to assume compatibility when yin, feminine energy, and yang, masculine energy, interact. One would think that feminine and masculine energies would balance each other out. However, in some ways, the energies complement each other and improve Aquarius-Cancer compatibility--although, in some ways, they don't.^{[3]XResearch source}
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Question 2 of 3:

What do Cancers and Aquarius have in common?

Despite the fact that many people believe they are one of the least compatible pairings, they share many characteristics. A few traits the two signs share include optimism, the desire to care for others, creativity, and sensitivity. A Cancerian friend is a wonderful companion who will always be there for you no matter what. Aquarians and Cancerians are both fiercely loyal, but Aquarians prefer to focus on one friend at a time, whereas Cancerians believes "the more the merrier" when it comes to friends.^{[4]XResearch source}^{[5]XResearch source}
- Note: Cancer and Aquarius bring to the table of companionship the qualities of generosity and loyalty. They'll always find a way to help each other out, and even if there are challenges, these are two individuals who will do everything they can to make it work.

Question 3 of 3:

How to Make A Cancer and Aquarius Friendship Work

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Maintain an equal balance of introverted and extroverted activities. To keep this relationship balanced, try new things in the city and stay at home together. This will help with the energy flow you are experiencing. Cancers are introverted by nature, but leaving them to their own devices can backfire. Cancer can become depressed when they are lonely; they thrive on social interactions. Aquarius has some introverted traits due to their love of ideas, but they are natural social butterflies.^{[6]XResearch source}
- An Aquarius will enjoy calmer activities, while a Cancer will like altruistic activities. Although, a few activities Cancers and Aquarius will enjoy include charitable events, visiting a library, or bike riding.^{[7]XResearch source}
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Go with the flow. Another thing about the pair is that they both like to have fun and keep things casual. Aquarius is a free-spirited and self-sufficient sign. They aren't big planners and don't do well when others tell them how they should live their lives. Aquarius would rather go with the flow and see where it takes them in the future. But this is fine with Cancer. If air and water naturally flow and mutable naturally changes and adapts, then the air and water mutable signs – Cancer and Aquarius – are the most "going with the flow" signs.^{[8]XResearch source}^{[9]XResearch source} ^{[10]XResearch source}
- A tip for the Cancer in the friendship: Keep it real. Aquarius wants to see a friend who is genuine, authentic, and content with their own life. Gossiping or hurtful behavior, even if not directed at an Aquarius, is hurtful and off-putting to them.^{[11]XResearch source}
- A tip for the Aquarius in the friendship: Stick with your pal. Cancers typically require a few ride-or-die friends who feel like family. The Cancerian in your friend group is most likely the one who opens their home to visitors and creates a welcoming atmosphere for all.^{[12]XResearch source}
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Make one-on-one time a priority. While the crab yearns for love and attention, the water bearer yearns for authenticity, uniqueness, and intellectual stimulation. What this pair needs to do is put structure in place. Block off time on your calendar to sit down and chat without interruptions.^{[13]XResearch source}
- Tip: Go over your week and discuss your different points of view. The more you hear from each other, the better you'll understand each other! This will assist you in meeting each other's needs.
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Show each other that you care. Cancers are sympathetic and caring, whereas Aquarius has a tendency to be distant, which can be difficult for Cancer. This can make the crab feel misunderstood, and that's where Cancer-Aquarius friendships go downhill. To make the friendship work, the Aquarius will have to work harder to express their emotions and not just think about them.^{[14]XResearch source} Make an effort to show each other that you care, whether it be through gifts, words of kindness, or hugs.
- A tip for the Cancer: Try not to be too needy with your Aquarius. Asking for more before they're ready may push them away. Aquarius is a very independent sign, so if you are too demanding for them, you will most lose them as a friend.^{[15]XResearch source}
- A tip for the Aquarius: Make an effort not to see your Cancer as needy simply because you don't operate in the same way. Consider whether they truly want too much or if you are not providing enough. Also, keep in mind that Cancers are moody. Sometimes it's just a matter of being patient and riding the waves with them. Your calm demeanor will benefit your friend greatly.^{[16]XResearch source}
Don't be afraid to open up to one another. The more you learn about each other and how to rely on each other, the closer you will be. This combination has a sweet vibe to it. There's a good chance they'll enjoy each other's company and want to be life-long friends, but you two must make a concerted effort to communicate and, when necessary, compromise. Compromise is your ally, not your adversary.^{[17]XResearch source}
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Make a safe space for emotional-intellectual exploration. Both of these zodiacs are profound, spiritual, and generous. Cancer requires Aquarius' reassurance because it can be rocked by emotional waves. Aquarius should try to create a safe space for Cancer to express their emotions, just as Aquarius needs a safe space to express their ideas. Cancer should talk, explore ideas, try new and bizarre things, laugh, be witty, and push their own intellect in order to meet Aquarius' need for mental stimulation--it will be appreciated by Aquarius.^{[18]XResearch source}
- Note: You need a place where you can both feel comfortable expressing your thoughts and feelings. It's all about finding balance, discovering who you are, and motivating one another. Understand how you differ and what your goals are, both individually and as a couple.
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Is it possible to make a Cancer and Aquarius friendship work?
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Yes, but like any friendship, it will take time and you’ll have to understand each other.
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