How to Know When Your Child is Old Enough to Babysit

Babysitting can be an excellent way for teenagers and older kids to learn how to be responsible while earning some money. Before allowing your child to watch other people's children, however, you will want to make sure that they are up to the task.

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Gauging Your Child's Interest

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Interest is a prerequisite for babysitting. An interested babysitter is much more likely to be attentive. If your child is not excited by the prospect of babysitting, it might not be the right time.^{[1]XResearch source}
If your child comes to you to express their interest, this is a very good sign of readiness. You can then have a talk about what is expected of a babysitter and what the role entails. Your child can ask questions, and can get a sense of whether or not this is something they really want to do.
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Has your child brought up training courses? Are they interested in getting their CPR certification? If your child has begun to discuss these steps with you, they are thinking about this role in a serious and mature way.
Does your child take an active role in looking after their siblings without even being asked? If so, your child may be ready to look after other people's children.

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Assessing Your Child's Maturity

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Make sure you are aware of your state's minimum age requirement for children to be left alone with other children. Most of the time, it is 10 years old.^{[2]XResearch source}
If you give them a job to do, can they concentrate and get it done? Are they easily distracted? The ability to stay present to a task is a big part of maturity. You will want to be sure that you child is capable of carrying out all of the parents' instructions. The parents would not be pleased to come home and discover that their child has not had dinner and is up past his bedtime, and that the toys are all over the place.^{[3]XResearch source}
Your child needs to be able to be unsupervised in their own home before they can be left alone in someone else's home. If you have left your child home alone, ask yourself how well this has gone. The child should be able to do things like prepare simple meals.

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Determining If Your Child Is Prepared for the Responsibility

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Have your child be a mother's helper. A mother's helper is a “babysitter-in-training.” They watch children while the parents or guardians are home, but occupied. A mother's helper might entertain children and also perform light housework. If this goes well, your child may be ready to babysit on their own.^{[4]XResearch source}
- You might also try having your child look after their younger brothers and sisters while you are completing household tasks.^{[5]XResearch source}
You can leave your child to watch younger siblings while you go out to run errands. They can call you to check in while you are out, and you can discuss the experience with them when you return. If this is successful, your child may be ready to look after other people's children.^{[6]XResearch source}
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Enroll your child in a babysitting, first aid, or CPR class. A qualified babysitter has knowledge of first aid and CPR.^{[7]XResearch source} Taking a class will help your child feel prepared and confident. It can also increase your child's chances of getting a job, as many parents would rather hire a sitter who has taken a course.
- Your child can take a course in first aid or CPR/AED with the Red Cross that includes a digital certificate, which is valid for two years.^{[8]XResearch source}
- The Red Cross offers both in-person and online classes.^{[9]XResearch source}
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Assess whether your child is prepared for all scenarios. Does your child know what to do in case of an emergency? Do they know how to feed young children, change diapers, and deal with minor cuts and scrapes?^{[10]XResearch source} Try rehearsing situations by asking your child:
- “What would you do if a stranger calls?”
- “What would you do if the doorbell rings?”
- “What would you do if the child got hurt?”
- “What would you you do if the kids were fighting?”

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It depends on how mature the 10-year-old is, and of course the parents of the children will have the final say, but anywhere between 3-8 years old is probably a good range.
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Have your child start off slowly. At first, they should take jobs no more than a few hours in duration. This will give them a chance to become familiar with the kids and get comfortable with the job.^{[11]XResearch source}
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Usually, babysitters who are not comfortable staying long period should not babysit for longer than three hours at a time.^{[12]XResearch source}
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Make sure your child has support. Your child should have the parents' contact information, as well as the number of a neighbor. ^{[13]XResearch source}
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