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This article was co-authored by Cher Gopman. Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
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Have you ever seen a guy at the beach or the mall that is so cute? We all have! Here are a few steps to get a complete stranger to notice you!
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Glance at him every now and then, you may catch him looking at you too.[1]
If you do catch his gaze, smile and say hi! He should return the greeting with a smile or hello, or both![2] A smile allows the other person to feel at ease with you.[3]Advertisement
Continue your shopping, but keep glancing. Make eye contact again, giggle and look away, this could send signals that you are interested.
Now you can talk to him, if he does not talk to you first you go to him.
Start a conversation. Start this conversation with something like "Oh, that shirt you have will look great on you, you should get it!" if he is holding a shirt or something. Just continue from there!
When you feel as though the conversation can come to a close (and leave him wanting more) tell him you enjoyed talking with him, tell him you would love to see him again, this should give him the idea that you are interested and he will probably ask for a number, if not you ask him (unless his body language says he is not interested)- Reader Poll: We asked 456 How.com.vn readers who've flirted with someone, and 77% of them agreed that the best way to handle a rejection is to respect their wishes and gracefully end the conversation. [Take Poll]
- 7If you want him to come to you, walk by him and do a hair flip, but please make the hair flip natural! No guy wants a fake ditz. If you feel him looking at you when you stop, smile a little and giggle to yourself as if you remembered something funny (but don't look at him while doing this), it will be inviting and cute. Glance at him and smile and look away shyly. Bite your lip once(practice this in the mirror!) He should come to you in a heart beat!
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- Do a self check before you go in, check your hair, makeup, clothes, etc.Thanks
- Smile! It always make you seem friendly and approachable.Thanks
- Don't be scared, breathe deep before you go in. After all he could be the one, don't lose your chance!Thanks
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Warnings
- Don't lie about anything, you might grow a relationship and when he finds out it could ruin it.Thanks
- Make sure he is not with a girl!!!Thanks
- Don't put your finger in your mouth, though some guys think this is sexy, to others it may come across as though your biting your nails which is a dirty habit (which it is) and you never know what he might think!Thanks
- He may ignore you, just pretend as though nothing happened, and don't fret he's probably not worth it anyway!Thanks
- Don't leave your bags unattended if you are at the mall and you go talk to him. <(random i know, but it could happen)Thanks
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Things You'll Need
- Your confidence
- Your Smile
- A friend to help push you along so you don't back out!
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This article was co-authored by Cher Gopman. Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post. This article has been viewed 112,847 times.
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Updated: January 3, 2024
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Categories: Flirting
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