How to Buy the Perfect Valentine's Gift for Your Girlfriend

Valentine's Day shouldn't be a dreaded event for men in relationships. This is your chance to do something special for the one you care about. You can do anything from buying her something to planning out a romantic day for two. Whatever you decide to do, make sure your gift caters to your girlfriend specifically.

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Sample Gift Ideas for Girlfriend

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Buying the Perfect Gift

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Think of a personal gift. Reflect on your relationship and come up with some themes she enjoys. Even if you haven't dated for too long, a well thought out gift can get you extra relationship points. If you don't typically make things, buying a gift can still be a personable choice.
- Think back to any hints your girlfriend has given you about Valentine's Day. Some people are against Valentine's Day, but even those people can be happy with a small gift.
- Make a list of things your girlfriend likes or purchases.^{[1]XExpert SourceLeTisha Underwood
  Certified Professional MatchmakerExpert Interview. 14 December 2021.} Some theme ideas are horse memorabilia, X-Files, vinyl records, soccer, antique bookends, or even craft beer.
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Buy a gift for couples. A classic romantic gift you can buy is a gift you and your girlfriend can take advantage of together. Pick something that will bring you closer together. Some of the classic options for couples are concerts, massage dates for two, and sporting events.^{[2]XResearch source} Think about how you first started bonding together and think about an event that caters to this.
- For example, if you first started bonding over a Steely Dan song, buy tickets to a Steely Dan concert.
- If you started bonding over tacos, buy a cooking class for two that is only for cooking tacos.
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Give her a traditionally romantic gift. The three classic gifts for Valentine's Day are chocolate, flowers, and jewelry.^{[3]XResearch source} These are good gifts if your girlfriend enjoys traditional romance and you cater the gift specifically to your girlfriend. For example, if your girlfriend loves coconut, buy a set of chocolate truffles with coconut. You can make traditional gifts more personal by adding something extra to your gift.
- Jewelry is a good place to offer something unique to a gift package. Take note of the type of jewelry your girlfriend wears. Buy something that caters to her style.^{[4]XExpert SourceLeTisha Underwood
  Certified Professional MatchmakerExpert Interview. 14 December 2021.} Make sure it is not too flashy, unless she is a flashy girl.
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Buy a unique gift. One of the best options for a gift is something that uniquely caters to your girlfriend. Think back to your time together and think about her hobbies or what she regularly buys. If your girlfriend is an artist or musician, consider a gift that will save her money like oil paints or guitar cables. If your girlfriend loves cat-themed items, take a look in vintage clothing stores or online for cat-themed items.
- If there is a specific, fictitious character or animal she loves, look on etsy.com for handcrafted goods.
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Get her a pet. Before getting an animal you need to make sure your girlfriend wants a pet and has the time to watch over a pet. You should also be able to commit time to taking care of this animal as well. Decide what pet your girlfriend wants the most. Think back to see if she expresses a desire to be around cats, dogs, or even bunnies.
- An easy pet you can give is a pet fish. Betta Fish are fun pets and easy to take care of.
- Get an older rescue animal if you're unsure about having a pet for too long. Older rescue animals need love and care from people just as much as puppies and kittens do.
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Buy a bedroom gift. This option should only be for older couples who have engaged in adult activities before. There are several gift options that can add steam to your relationship. You can buy small gifts to add to foreplay such as handcuffs or special lingerie. There are also sensual books on kama sutra and even sensual cook books like “Fork Me, Spoon Me: The Sensual Cookbook” by Amy Reiley.^{[5]XResearch source}
- Make sure your girlfriend is into this kind of thing before going for it. Some girls may be disgusted by something like this, and many will be thrilled you want to explore more in your relationship.
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Add a handwritten note. Almost every girl in a relationship wants a love note or some type of handwritten card of appreciation. This is the best way to ensure that your gift will be a success. If you and your girlfriend don't openly say “I love you,” leave that out of the card. Write about things you like or love about your girlfriend. Be honest and write about the small things that go beyond her appearance.
- If you want to express that you love your girlfriend, try saying it to her face. It is a big move and she might not say it back to you.
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Crafting a Sentimental Gift

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Make a mix CD. This is a classic gift choice for music lovers. You can create a specialized mix of songs that you have enjoyed together or even by choosing songs that center around love. You can use music softwares like Windows Music Player and iTunes to create a personalized mix-CD for your lady.^{[6]XResearch source}
- Listen to the songs in their entirety before adding them to the mix. Sometimes a love song can turn into a break-up song by the end of the song. Keep the songs themed on love.
- When in doubt you can always look up best R&B or rock love songs.
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Cook baked goods. Making baked goods is a great way to show your girlfriend that you are thinking of her. Think about sweets or candy your girlfriend loves, and make something similar. For example, if your girlfriend loves peanut M&Ms, search through the internet for baked good recipes with peanut M&Ms.^{[7]XResearch source}
- You can also bake treats in the shape of hearts for an added touch.
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Create a scrapbook. Compile all the pictures of you and your girlfriend, and find any ticket stubs you've attended together. Print off online pictures from a photoshop so your photos are higher quality. Use any other type of physical sentiments you've held onto like fortune cookie fortunes or drawings made by her or you.
- Compile all the sentimental pictures and memorabilia into an organized scrapbook. You can organize the book by events or go through your relationship chronologically.
- You can buy scrapbooks from craft stores. The only supplies you need is a pair of scissors and glue.^{[8]XResearch source}
You can get a lot of relationship points by creating a little coupon book of things you are willing to do for your lady. An example of a coupon is “Good for one foot massage” or “One free kitchen cleaning.” You also add coupons that cater to adult situations that take place in the bedroom.^{[9]XResearch source}
Complete the gift by adding a love note or some type of handwritten card of appreciation. This is the best way to ensure that your gift will be a success. If you and your girlfriend don't openly say “I love you,” leave that out of the card. Write about things you like or love about your girlfriend. Be honest and write about the small things that go beyond her appearance.
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Planning Out a Romantic Date

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Consider dinner. Going out to eat on Valentine's Day can be a hassle if you don't plan on a Valentine's Day rush. Decide a week before if you want to go out for dinner or cook a meal for two.^{[10]XExpert SourceLeTisha Underwood
Certified Professional MatchmakerExpert Interview. 14 December 2021.} If there is a place you want to go for dinner, call days ahead of time for a reservation.
- If you decide to cook a meal yourself, pick a meal your girlfriend loves. Go out of your way to make a fantastic experience.
- If you want to be at home and don't know how to cook, consider getting fancy take-out or even hire a personal chef to cook at your home.
- Dinner is typically a standard for Valentine's Day, so take some time to plan it out.^{[11]XResearch source}
A classic after dinner date is dancing. Make it special by finding dance lessons for couples. There are plenty of studios and clubs that offer couple lessons in salsa or tango dancing. Be sure that your girlfriend enjoys dancing.
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See a romantic film. Dinner and a movie is another classic date you could do. Check your communities theaters for Valentine's Day specials. Many smaller arts theaters will play classic romance films for couples. Sometimes newer Hollywood movies will be released around Valentine's Day as well.
- Consider what your partner likes. Some girls would rather go see a horror movie rather than a romance.
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How do I make her feel special on Valentine's Day?
LeTisha Underwood
Certified Professional Matchmaker
LeTisha Underwood is a Certified Professional Matchmaker and the CEO of Two Hearts Exclusive Matchmaking Services. With more than five years of experience, she specializes in helping marriage-minded people find their life partners. LeTisha holds a Matchmaker Certification from The Global Love Institute.
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Get her something unforgettable, like a really extravagant floral arrangement, a romantic dinner, a gift to the spa, jewelry, or a surprise vacation/getaway.
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