How to Be a Sweet Lolita

Lolita fashion is a subculture that began in Japan that is primarily influenced by Victorian children’s clothing as well as fashion from the Rococo period.

Sweet Lolita fashion places its focus on the sweet aspects of Lolita design. It uses colorful prints, lace, and ribbons to emphasize the cuteness in the design.

Steps

  1. How.com.vn English: Step 1 Look for cute accessories.
    Items such as purses, head dresses. Look for colours in the prints of your dress or skirt to match your accessories with or common colours that will match several dresses.[1]
  2. How.com.vn English: Step 2 Go for cute and sweet.
    You can still wear dark colors, but they are usually used as an accent colour for accessories. Popular colors include mostly pastels and colours like pink, sax blue, white/cream, pale yellow, mint green & lavender are very popular.[2]
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  3. How.com.vn English: Step 3 Explore options for head wear.
    Headwear is optional but very popular. Many dresses will have matching bows or headdresses available, but coordinating colours and motifs can work as well. Avoid mini top hats as it looks costume-y, and Lolita is a fashion, not a costume. Bows, headbands, clips & headdresses are all popular choices.[3]
    • Wigs are worn by many Lolitas but are optional and you can style your own hair or use a wig.
  4. How.com.vn English: Step 4 Make sure to shop for a blouse.
    Unless your dress is an OP or one-piece dress and has sleeves, you will need to wear a blouse underneath. A blouse is worn with skirts as well. A dress with no sleeves is called a jsk (jumper skirt) and has to have a blouse with it. Sleeve lengths and collar style vary, but Lolita is a modest fashion and your cleavage and shoulders need to be covered. Blouses are often cream, ivory or white as these can be worn with more outfits, but coloured blouses are great too.[4]
  5. How.com.vn English: Step 5 Wear a petticoat.
    The ideal sweet lolita silhouette is of the bell shape, whether she is wearing a dress or a skirt. This shape is achieved thanks to the petticoat beneath the skirt. A skirt which cannot fit enough petticoats underneath to achieve this shape is usually improper for the style. A Lolita skirt should be no shorter than 2" above the knee. The petticoat is a staple undergarment for Lolita, and a Lolita is not properly dressed without one. Bloomers are worn underneath the petticoat by many Lolitas for extra modesty and protection from chafing, but these are optional, and wearing shorts or bike shorts will suffice.[5]
  6. How.com.vn English: Step 6 Shirts/Dresses shouldn't show any cleavage, or shoulders.
    If you're wearing a jumper-skirt (Like a Lolita dress, but sleeveless), always wear a blouse underneath. Lolita fashion aims to be cute and modest and is never supposed to be a sexy style! Your skirt should go down to the knee usually, but this does vary with taller Lolitas and variation is acceptable depending on height and dress fit.[6]
    • A Lolita dress for £200 will probably be worth it. Brands like Angelic Pretty and Baby The Stars Shine Bright will never let you down. Love them and look after anything you purchase from there. If you want cheaper brands with an effect that almost matches, look at Anna House and Metamorphose. However, do not use Milanoo, as it is a known scam. When it comes to blouses, bloomers and shoes, use Bodyline. But be careful when shopping with them for other things, as they sell things that are in other Japanese fashion styles, as well as costume items. Alternatively, look for second hand brand items in places such as 'lace market' or Facebook groups. This could cut the price of a brand dress in half.
  7. How.com.vn English: Step 7 Footwear.
    The traditional footwear of choice for Lolitas is the Mary Jane, but similar options are available. A proper Lolita shoe should feature a closed, rounded toe and not have a thin high heel (although platform shoes and boots and shoes with a slight heel are acceptable) .[7]
    • Boots fitting into this criteria are quite common with brands, though care must be taken not to go too edgy in one's boot choice. Another favorite style, owing to the popularity of Vivienne Westwood in Japan, are rocking horse shoes.
    • Socks are very important at the moment. In Lolita it is fashionable to have pretty, high socks. Prints on socks always look cute! Find prints with gingham, cakes/sweets, animals, bows, hearts, musical notes, etc. Sometimes brands will sell socks to match their dresses, if you would prefer to go for a full set look.
  8. How.com.vn English: Step 8 Decide on your hair.
    Any style really is fine, as long as it fits with your coord (outfit), but pigtails or curls are common. If you think you would like to wear a wig for lolita, make sure it does not look fake; get a high-quality one from eBay, or a speciality wig shop. If you have a fringe, which is incredibly common for lolita, make sure that it does not go over your eyes.[8]
    • For headbands, try bows, bonnets, headdresses and flowers. Try and DIY things or find them second hand, as brand accesories can be up to £100.
  9. How.com.vn English: Step 9 Have Lolita-style makeup.
    Blush and neutral eyeshadow is popular, and a good suncream is a must. Eyelash extensions, if worn, must not be too long or else they will look bad.[9]
  10. How.com.vn English: Step 10 Remember to be yourself, don't lose your personality in the fashion!
  11. How.com.vn English: Step 11 Smile in your pictures!
    Take Purikura pictures with your friends if you can! It's a great, fun activity!
  12. How.com.vn English: Step 12 Go out in groups with other Sweet Lolitas.
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    What if you're in middle school. Can you still be a Sweet Lolita?
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    You can still wear Sweet Lolita. You would probably have an easier time fitting into many of the tiny dresses designed for petite Japanese girls. You can also check thrift stores and make items yourself if you're on a tight budget. Check YouTube for tutorials on how to make things.
  • Question
    How do I convince my parents to buy me a dress if I am 13?
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    Try slowly easing into the style! Ask them to buy you a few Kawaii items like bows, toys, hair accessories, and plushies, and after you have a collection of those, you can try asking them for more cute clothing. If they won't buy you a dress, try asking for a skirt.
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    Can I be a sweet Lolita in elementary school?
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    I would ask your parents. Ask them to help you explore this style. It will be more difficult to find dresses that fit as a small child, so try your best.
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      Tips

      • For fabric and lace, do not buy anything shiny! Use cotton and polyester only! Other fabrics are usually cheap, costume-like and scratchy, which ruins the Lolita look.
      • If people tease you, just ignore them. If you're feeling particularly charitable, try to explain about the style. Do not get mad or insult them back!
      • Remember that your attitude is also an important part of your style. Lolita fashion emphasizes elegance, modesty, and cuteness, so if you wear it, be polite, friendly and courteous. This is especially important if you plan to attend Lolita meet-ups or conventions.
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      Warnings

      • Don't use cheap materials; they will tear easily and ruin the look.
      • Lolita can attract unwanted attention from certain people if you go out in public. Follow general safety precautions while going out into public.
      • Do not use cheap lace, it irritates the skin and may look ratty.
      • Whatever you do, don't try to be sexy. It ruins the look and other Lolitas will look down on you.
      • Lolita online communities are usually very drama filled! It's best to avoid these communities if you don't want to be involved in drama.
      • Some lolitas may look down on you if you don't have all brand clothing, this does not mean you SHOULD have all brand clothing however, as it is very expensive and most Lolitas will not look down on you for not having brand. If they do though, then they are probably not the kind of people you want to spend time with in the first place, so don't let it bother you, you are not any less of a lolita for not having brand.
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