How to Be a Classy Girl

The key to being classy is acting with confidence and grace. Always be polite and keep your cool at all times. Avoid rude behaviour like swearing and maintain good posture to present yourself proudly. Buy yourself timeless, classy clothing and keep it wrinkle-free. Keep up a well-groomed look with sleek nails, hair, and makeup.

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Acting Gracefully

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Demonstrate good manners. A key part of being classy is being polite and respectable. Display good manners every day by using phrases like, "please," "thank you," "you're welcome," and "excuse me." Be courteous to those around you and avoid being loud or rude.^{[1]XResearch source}
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Stay calm in stressful situations. To exude class, avoid letting your emotions get the better of you when things get tough. Practice deep breathing if you feel overwhelmed, and take a few moments to collect your thoughts to avoid losing your cool. Don't deny your feelings, but control your reaction and take the opportunity to vent to a friend or loved one at a more discreet opportunity.^{[2]XResearch source}
- To help calm yourself down, drink a glass of water.
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Avoid swearing. Portraying a classy image means avoiding rude or crass language. In lieu of swearing, try using elaborate adjectives to emphasize your points. Speak as though you're always in the presence of someone you wouldn't want to curse around, like a grandparent.^{[3]XResearch source}
- For instance, if you are upset about something, say, "that's deplorable!" instead of cursing about it.
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Maintain good posture. Standing tall is a sign of self-assuredness, which goes hand in hand with being classy. To stand with better posture, draw your shoulders back and down to keep your body from slouching forward. Keep your head lifted upwards as if an invisible string were attached to your crown of your head, pulling it up.^{[4]XResearch source}
- Practice stretching exercises that will improve your posture and be mindful about how you carry yourself throughout the day.
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Being Sophisticated

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Try new cuisines. Having an adventurous palate is a sign of sophistication. Every week or two, try a restaurant featuring a type of cuisine that is entirely new to you. Search online for interesting restaurants in your area that you have yet to try.^{[5]XResearch source}
- If this type of culinary adventure is too ambitious for your budget, aim to go out for lunch instead of supper, which will be less expensive.
- You can also look up new and interesting recipes online to try cooking at home.
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Expand your knowledge of art and culture. Being worldly and culturally aware is a big part of embodying class and sophistication. Find books at your local bookstore or library ranging from classic literature and poetry to art history. Visit museums and art galleries whenever possible to experience art first hand.
- If you are on a budget, check to see if the museums you are interested in offer student discounts or reduced admission on certain days.
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Learn a new language. Speaking several languages is an impressive skill that will make you seem worldly and refined. Take language courses at your school or at a community center, or study a foreign language online. Download apps that will help to make learning new words and phrases more fun.^{[6]XResearch source}
- If your family speaks multiple languages, study to achieve written and spoken fluency in all of them.
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Dressing Well

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Go for high quality fabrics. Synthetic fabrics such as polyester, lycra, and spandex can look tacky and unnatural. Opt instead for high quality fabrics, like silk, wool, or cotton. Good quality fabrics may cost more, but they will usually last longer and make a better investment overall.^{[7]XResearch source}
- Read the care labels on an article of clothing before buying it to see what you will have to do to take care of it. If you can't invest in regular dry cleaning, be sure to forgo items that say "dry clean only" on the tag.
- Hand wash and air dry delicate materials like wool, which may sustain damage in the washer and shrink in the dryer.
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Choose neutral colors. Flashy, bright colors may be bold, but they do not convey a classy image. Go for classic, neutral colors like black, white, beige, or navy blue. Sticking with these colors will make it easy to mix and match your clothing without the risk of looking gaudy.
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Wear tailored clothing. Clothing that is form-fitting without being tight will fit your body best and make you look put-together. Your sweaters, blazers, shirts, and blouses should follow the curve of your waist, while pants should fall about .5 inches (1.3 cm) off the ground at the back. Bring your clothing to a tailor to have the necessary adjustments made.^{[8]XResearch source}
- Most alterations will cost between $10-15.
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Steam or iron your clothing. Wrinkles will make you look unkempt and work against your classic look. Always take the time to make sure your clothes are wrinkle-free before going out. Carefully use a steamer or clothes iron to remove wrinkles.^{[9]XResearch source}
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Wear minimal accessories. Aim for subtle, classic jewelry like small silver or gold hoop earrings, a pearl necklace, pearl or diamond stud earrings, a delicate pendant necklace, a tennis bracelet, or an elegant watch. Avoid wearing too many rings, and only wear them on your middle or ring fingers. Dress up your classic wardrobe with one standout accessory, such as a colorful silk scarf or a beautiful pair of shoes.^{[10]XResearch source}
- Stylish well-made shoes in neutral colors are a great investment as they will go with a variety of different outfits. You can also spice up your shoe collection with one or two pairs of "fun" shoes, such as a pair of red pumps.
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Staying Well-Groomed

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Get manicures and pedicures. Pamper and perfect your hands and feet by keeping your nails clean and manicured. Book an appointment at a salon or give yourself a manicure and pedicure. Opt for neutral nail colors or clean polish to add shine.^{[11]XResearch source}
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Keep your hair sleek and well-managed. A perfect coif is timeless and classy, regardless of the style. Get regular haircuts to keep the ends of your hair from splitting, and use styling products like balm or serum to prevent frizziness. Style hair in a sleek bun, neat braid, or elegant curls for a sophisticated look.
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Wear subdued makeup. If you wear makeup, avoid applying anything too heavy or showy. Keep it simple to enhance your natural beauty. Opt for classic black mascara, light concealer, simple lip color, and subdued eyeshadow in neutral shades like taupe or pearl. Dust your face with a light powder to look fresh and shine-free.^{[12]XResearch source}
- Whether you use makeup or not, take care of your skin to make it always glowing and protected. Wash your face, tone the skin and apply moisturizer every morning.
- Night moisturizer, coconut oil and eye cream also help to form a barrier for healthy skin.
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Do I need to be nice to myself and others when being classy?
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Yes. Having class is all about treating yourself and others with respect.
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How can I be more classy while eating?
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Chew with your mouth closed and don't talk with food in your mouth. If you're at a restaurant, make sure you put your napkin in your lap and avoid placing your elbows on the table.
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How can I be a classy girl if I am not allowed to wear makeup?
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Being classy comes more from within than without. You can have the nicest, fanciest makeup in the world, but if you don't behave in a classy way, it won't matter. Also, part of being classy is having confidence, makeup or no makeup!
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