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Communities and neighborhoods are becoming more diverse, and people are being less narrow-minded about LGBT people. However, there are still many communities that are not completely open to them. So if you are gay and need to blend into a heterosexual neighborhood, here are some steps to help you get along with your intolerant neighbors.
Steps
Make an effort to get to know your neighbors and make a positive first impression. Neighbors will be curious as to who their new neighbors are. Are they approachable and friendly? Do they have any kids? Are they the type of neighbors from whom you could borrow a cup of sugar?
Take no offense to homophobic remarks. Those who hold strong convictions and can't keep their thoughts to themselves may feel compelled to share their views on sexuality and religion with you. This isn't meant to be a personal insult; it's just how some people are.Advertisement
Give no attention to insults. When someone spouts homophobic language, try shifting the subject to defuse the situation. Allow them to have their say, but don't let it impact you. Make it clear that you are unfazed by their violent behavior by being cordial.
Treat others as you would like to be treated. Respect is earned through demonstrating that you respect others, their opinions, and their belongings. If you want to be respected, you must respect others.
Try to keep discussion topics neutral. Only discuss sexual orientation if the other person brings it up. Do not attempt to upset someone simply because they disagree with you. Above all, don't start a battle over your opposing viewpoints.
Keep in mind that we're all human. When homophobic people's prejudices are challenged with facts that disproves their assumptions of LGBTQ people, they will eventually face a reality check. In the end, there isn't much of a difference between LGBTQ and straight people. Persons will welcome LGBTQ people in the same way once they learn this.Advertisement
Community Q&A
- QuestionWhat if I am trans?
NicoTop AnswererYou'll be OK if you're nice and respectful. Respond to questions about your identity anyway you like, but remember that you don't have to educate or explain anything to your neighbors that you don't want to. Keep in mind that if your neighbors become unfriendly or threaten you, you can call the cops.
Tips
- Allow others to form their own opinions rather than forcing them to accept you. It's not your fault if they can't accept you, so just leave them alone.Thanks
Warnings
- Call the cops if your neighbors become hostile or threaten you.Thanks
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